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parker301988 May 18th, 2018 02:20 AM

My best friend is courting me.
 
More than a year ago, I met this patient and faithful guy in a local church gathering. I wasn’t expecting that he’d become my best friend since I see it as so good to be true. Little did I know that I’ll fall in love with him as time goes by and that the feeling is actually mutual. Last Sunday, he confessed his feelings to me and I felt so unmoved. I just can’t explain it-- I believe I’m falling for him badly. I really wanted to give my “yes” to him but I’m quite afraid of one thing: that he’ll see me as “no way better” than his ex. Her ex broke up with him last 2016, ditched her with another guy and got married. I love him but I just don’t want to become a bandage for his wounded heart. Shall this prevent us from going into the next level or shall I strip my fear away? I badly need some advice.

LucyVanPelt May 18th, 2018 05:30 AM

Re: My best friend is courting me.
 
That was 2 years ago. Nothing heals the heart better than time and love. Don't let your fear get in the way of that.

snafu May 19th, 2018 12:27 PM

Re: My best friend is courting me.
 
I'm with Lucy - go for it....

parker301988 May 21st, 2018 08:43 AM

Re: My best friend is courting me.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by LucyVanPelt (Post 86001)
That was 2 years ago. Nothing heals the heart better than time and love. Don't let your fear get in the way of that.

Do you think he's already moved on? If so, I will say yes to him. But I'm just afraid about some possibilities.

parker301988 May 21st, 2018 08:45 AM

Re: My best friend is courting me.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by snafu (Post 86005)
I'm with Lucy - go for it....

Thanks for this. It's just that I'm afraid of the possibilities. I love him, really. And I think he's the right one for me.

KayKay May 21st, 2018 08:50 AM

Re: My best friend is courting me.
 
If he has confessed his feelings to you, then it sounds like he has already moved on from his ex.

The part I wonder about is why you were "unmoved" when he confessed his feelings?


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