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Forum: Other October 1st, 2018, 07:15 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,597
Posted By victorious
Re: "me" time

Working out, going for a walk, and soaking in the bath are things I do for me time.
Forum: Pets September 10th, 2018, 06:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 745
Posted By victorious
Re: Finding my dog a new home

I'm so sorry about your situation. I know what you mean about places not allowing pets and it's frustrating.

Since your uncle is letting you stay with him for an indefinite period of time even...
Forum: Other July 11th, 2017, 07:48 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,521
Posted By victorious
Re: Sister's Continuing to Lie

KayKay - I see what you are saying about asking because you care about your friends and not the kids you are asking about per say. (I do have to say that is so infuriating that they are not nice to...
Forum: Other July 11th, 2017, 12:06 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,521
Posted By victorious
Re: Sister's Continuing to Lie

Thanks so much, LucyVanPelt. What you said about my family was so kind.

I love my sister for not wanting to hurt me, but as you said the lies bring awkwardness as does pretending that things are...
Forum: Other July 11th, 2017, 01:26 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,521
Posted By victorious
Re: Sister's Continuing to Lie

Aw, thanks. I agree. My extended family would have cared for me of course but what my sister and BIL helped eliminate losing familiar grounds and a childhood home on top of our mom. I eventually...
Forum: In-laws July 11th, 2017, 01:16 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,930
Posted By victorious
Re: My Brother-in-law Hates Me? - UPDATE

Thanks so much!

I wish I could borrow some of your time zone as getting up for work is not going to be fun in a few hours. lol However, I honestly wouldn't have gotten a wink of sleep had not...
Forum: In-laws July 11th, 2017, 12:51 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,930
Posted By victorious
Re: My Brother-in-law Hates Me? - UPDATE

I have no problem staying out of it. I just don't want my SO pounding for advice of what to do because he is getting mixed signals from BIL.

You seem like a really great mom and such a great...
Forum: Other July 11th, 2017, 12:33 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,521
Posted By victorious
Re: Sister's Continuing to Lie

I don't take that as unkind at all. I appreciate your honesty. I'm thankful I didn't have to choose. And if my SO [and he wouldn't, just being hypothetical] ever said it was either him or them I...
Forum: In-laws July 10th, 2017, 11:55 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,930
Posted By victorious
Re: My Brother-in-law Hates Me? - UPDATE

Thanks so much. You have really great advice.

So what if after not playing along with my SO that instead of just realizing his actions have consequences and forgetting my BIL, he takes it upon...
Forum: In-laws July 10th, 2017, 10:42 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,930
Posted By victorious
Re: My Brother-in-law Hates Me? - UPDATE

Oh and when I mean move on I mean not having to live a lie that everything is okay. I didn't mean move on as we forget what happened in December and the four of us going back to being chummy. ...
Forum: In-laws July 10th, 2017, 10:38 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,930
Posted By victorious
Re: My Brother-in-law Hates Me? - UPDATE

Thanks for your quick reply.

Not long after we came home from that trip when I laced into my SO he said he did admit to him he was wrong for having an outburst on a trip like that and apologized. ...
Forum: Other July 10th, 2017, 10:24 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,521
Posted By victorious
Sister's Continuing to Lie

This is kind of like an update/added problem to an old post regarding my sister. I will copy and paste the original post at the end so you can see the whole picture and not have to go back in the...
Forum: In-laws July 10th, 2017, 09:22 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,930
Posted By victorious
My Brother-in-law Hates Me? - UPDATE

I took KayKay's suggestion (THANK YOU!) and was finally able to have a convo face-to-face about my issue and now have a new problem. :( I'll copy and paste the original post at the end of this so...
Forum: Other July 10th, 2017, 08:18 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 3,082
Posted By victorious
Re: Tough situation - Grandparents - kids and declining health

I'm so sorry for your tough situation. Dementia is very upsetting for both the person diagnosed and the loved ones. Your MIL getting upset about how your FIL is treating her is understandable but...
Forum: In-laws June 6th, 2017, 02:02 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,750
Posted By victorious
Re: My Brother-in-law Hates Me?

Thanks again, KayKay, for everything. You're right about time will tell. I don't care if he never likes my SO ever again. All I care about is that in the end if I need him for anything he's there...
Forum: In-laws June 5th, 2017, 02:24 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,750
Posted By victorious
Re: My Brother-in-law Hates Me?

You have no idea how much I appreciate your perspective and your patience.

I really see what you mean and why my BIL might be how he is towards me. You're not a jerk at all!

If I talk to...
Forum: In-laws June 3rd, 2017, 03:44 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,750
Posted By victorious
Re: My Brother-in-law Hates Me?

I want to and know he wouldn't dare bring anything up because people's relationships are their own personal business, but he already knows I have already addressed my SO about what happened and the...
Forum: In-laws June 3rd, 2017, 08:40 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,750
Posted By victorious
Re: My Brother-in-law Hates Me?

Thanks for what you said. It feels good knowing somebody else things that.

I completely understand why he's waiting for the other shoe to drop. Just wish he wouldn't be cold towards me.
Forum: In-laws June 2nd, 2017, 10:16 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,750
Posted By victorious
My Brother-in-law Hates Me?

Because he's been together with my sister for so long, my brother-in-law has pretty much been a brother to me for many years which has been a comfort since our actual brother lives far away. Anyway...
Forum: Other May 14th, 2017, 07:57 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 7,573
Posted By victorious
Re: Help! Family doesn't reciprocate

If I were in your situation I would make the effort to see them but just in the summer as somebody already suggested. If not that maybe see them for one holiday every other year. My sister and I...
Forum: Open Chat May 14th, 2017, 06:30 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,763
Posted By victorious
Re: Women with anxiety disorders

I used to have social anxiety with people I didn't know so I can relate to anxiety for sure. Unfortunately I can't relate to the driving anxiety but have a colleague who gets so anxious when driving...
Forum: Other May 14th, 2017, 06:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,479
Posted By victorious
Re: Finally cut ties with my sister

You made a very good decision for not only yourself but the rest of your family. Based on both posts, it is clear that you have gone beyond being a wonderful sister and aunt to very ungrateful...
Forum: Other May 14th, 2017, 12:15 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,030
Posted By victorious
Re: Sister's Secret Has Become Lie

I really appreciate your reply. What you said makes a lot of sense. Had I found out about the trip and she had kept quiet about why she was taking off those days from work especially since I hadn't...
Forum: Other May 14th, 2017, 12:12 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,030
Posted By victorious
Re: Sister's Secret Has Become Lie

Thank you so much for your reply. The reason why I said she lied is on the day they supposedly are going to the hospital near us for testing they will be down at the beach house down south. They...
Forum: Pets May 14th, 2017, 11:23 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 3,781
Posted By victorious
Re: Cats know the "f" word

If your child has very minimal experiences with pets in general definitely wait until maybe 7 or 8. When you do get a cat make sure you get an overly friendly one so that it is a good first...
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