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Forum: Children May 2nd, 2017, 03:41 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

Hi Kay,

Yes, I went to my ex-partner. Luckily, we have remained friends after some healing time. He was very supportive.

My eldest DS has his rebellion, but, nothing to this extent. I just...
Forum: Step-families May 2nd, 2017, 08:41 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 6,331
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: Can't stand being around stepson

I have had a similar issue happen with me. My partner and I have split up because he couldn't cope with my son's behavior. Same deal. DS was lazy and not doing anything to better himself, he was...
Forum: Children May 2nd, 2017, 06:22 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

Today is DS's 18th birthday..

As DS doesn't have a phone, I wanted to just send a short birthday message so I thought I would send a Facebook message.. I find that DS had unfriended me so sending...
Forum: Children April 26th, 2017, 12:35 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

Hi Lucy, Knot and Kay..

Thank you so much for your support.

Yes, it is disappointing that my partner will not be supportive, however, I have to remember that DS did betray his trust. He may be...
Forum: Children April 25th, 2017, 05:44 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

Thank you Lucy..

I locked the doors so he couldn't get in. (I had an internal door he didn't have keys to until I can get a locksmith in..

I arrived home last night to find he broke in to get...
Forum: Children April 23rd, 2017, 03:19 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

*Update*

I was left a message on Wednesday that DS was going to a friends place and he wouldn't know when he would be back. It is now Sunday and I have not heard from him.

I came home this...
Forum: Children April 19th, 2017, 06:38 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

Unfortunately, the quality of counselors where I live is questionable. They are taught the positive reinforcement model. Focus on the good points of someone and rationalize behaviors by trauma.
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Forum: Children April 18th, 2017, 06:20 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

Thanks guys for your reply.

DS told me today that he won't be going to the job I sorted for him. It was more a trial but, the owner was giving him cash for fuel. I asked why and he said that he...
Forum: Children April 16th, 2017, 01:46 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

Hi Snafu,

I have tried.. Many times. I have got him work, but, he quits within weeks.. He refuses to go back and study.. I even said I would pay him to go back to school. I run a business and...
Forum: Children April 16th, 2017, 04:54 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

I don't blame my son for the failure of the relationship. My partner couldn't get passed what happened, and the relationship was rocky prior to the event..

I resent my son for the part in played,...
Forum: Children April 12th, 2017, 06:38 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: What does DS want from me?

Hi Lucy thanks for your response.

We tried counselling separate and together, but, he soon decided he didn't want to go or participate.

I don't know what he wants either. Like a typical child,...
Forum: Children April 10th, 2017, 05:33 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 4,075
Posted By JaydeeTas
What does DS want from me?

Hi all. It has been a while since I have posted.

My DS is 18 in 4 weeks... In the last 12 months, (since he was 16), it has been a very trying time.

DS is a very jealous boy. His father passed...
Forum: Step-families February 24th, 2016, 03:05 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 8,674
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: I need another opinion

As expected they dont care. I was taking photos of them while playing soccer and they have posted them on their clubs page. They have put it under their family name so they either took the credit or...
Forum: Step-families February 22nd, 2016, 04:54 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 8,674
Posted By JaydeeTas
Smile Re: I need another opinion

Hi all. .. just an update.

After an in depth discussion my partnet has allowed me to be part of the boys life on the weekend. Yay!
He was scared that if he "forced" me onto them that they would...
Forum: Step-families January 1st, 2016, 09:12 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 8,674
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: I need another opinion

Thank you Anndsil and Lucy.

He denied his son for the first year of his life. I know he feels guilt for that and it's trying to make it up to him but, nothing he does will fill that void. My...
Forum: Step-families January 1st, 2016, 02:03 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 8,674
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: I need another opinion

Maybe that's the issue! OMG why didn't I see this before.

That is why he won't move forward.

We have had brief discussions in regards to our children and what we allow and disallow.

My son...
Forum: Step-families January 1st, 2016, 01:12 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 8,674
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: I need another opinion

Sometimes I just need to be reassured that my thinking is on the right track. I often feel I am asking too much, then I get moments like tonight where I can hear them playing soccer outside and I am...
Forum: Parents January 1st, 2016, 12:33 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,683
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: About to be kicked out

Hi Siren,

Is it possible that while your parents support you, then they feel that have a say in what you do and who you see?

As a parent myself and my son is also 21, I to have had that...
Forum: Step-families January 1st, 2016, 12:23 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 8,674
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: I need another opinion

No, I don't think it is deliberate either. I think he is scared. My partner even mentioned once that he said to the boys that we were going to buy a house, apparently they weren't fussed at all. He...
Forum: Step-families December 31st, 2015, 11:58 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 8,674
Posted By JaydeeTas
Re: I need another opinion

Hi KayKay,

Sorry to confuse you. We have 2 boys each (4 in total) the eldest ones being 21 and the youngest ones being 16.

He's never given me a reason. All I get is "Blended families don't...
Forum: Step-families December 31st, 2015, 07:36 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 8,674
Posted By JaydeeTas
Unhappy I need another opinion

Hi all,

Thank you for taking the time to read.
I have been with my partner for a little over 3 years. we both have 2 boys each the exact age 16.

I have my 16 yr old 24/7. He has his son...
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