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Old November 21st, 2017, 12:32 PM
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The other grandparents

Greetings all. If you've read my previous post on the forum, I mentioned the various relatives that I share my home with. Among them would be the other set of grandparents (daughter's in laws or son in law's parents) depending on who I would be explaining the relationship to hahaha. I may have also alluded to the fact that we may not share the common "co-grandparent" relationship for various reasons with the most obvious one being them staying with us and all four of us playing daily roles in the lives of our two grandkids along with the circumstances of my wife, myself and the other grandparents having already been close friends for a very long time dating back to our teenage years.

However, in the case of our son and his wife who have three kids of their own, our relationship with those in laws would be considered more of the norm. As both sets of parents live in different states you could imagine that visits are few and never simultaneous and contact with the other side is kept at a minimum albeit most of the time unintentionally. My daughter's kids have the tendency to brag to their cousins about how grandpa and grandma along with their gramps and granny are always around. So we decided that for the coming holidays we'd have a first by inviting my son's inlaws over to the house to spend a few days. But I am quite unfamiliar and admittedly a little nervous about how this is going to play out from everything I've been reading on the Internet (seems to paint a picture of competition with both sides treating each other coldly).

I don't know the in laws too well as expected from a more conventional relationship and me not having seen them since our last grandchild was born 4 years ago. And as expected I have no idea how this may play out. As a child dad's parents stayed with us and mum's parents lived about a 15 minutes walk away so both sides would meet every weekend. It was also easier as my siblings and I were the only set of grandkids on both sides.

So I'd like to hear stories of if you've ever had both sets of your grandparents together at a time and how they got along as well as how frequently they would have met. If any of you are grandparents yourselves and have another set on the other side it would be excellent or any experiences between your parents your in laws and your kids could suffice too. As you can see I'm quite eager to hear any response and it would be most appreciated hahaha! Thanks.

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