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Old April 24th, 2017, 01:55 AM
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Re: Dont know what to do

I think you have the same problem here as with your sons.

You need to focus on you and your anxiety for the time. Until you deal with that then it's going to be hard for you to deal with the family members. Make the time for yourself to get the counselling. Once you have the ability to e let go you'll be more assertive in addressing with your family members as to what YOU need instead of you addressing what they need, which is their own responsibility as adults.
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