[lilly210]

Hi Everyone-
I'm turning 40 next year and just contemplating about relationships and life.
I recently went through a spiritual transformation and no longer wish to have negativity in my life and decided to start cleaning house. It was as if someone put another pair of glasses on me and now I'm clear with that I want.
I've de-attached myself from many people who claim to be there for me through thick and thin. Only finding out it was all a lie, when rubbers meets the road.

I'm look for perspective and for people to share their experience with friendships.
Do friendships start drifting away? As anyone tried rebuilding their group of friends and what were some of things you had to do? Or do you stick people that you grew up with? I'm sure there's no right or wrong way. Just looking for inspiration.