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Old April 11th, 2017, 04:49 PM
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Re: My Son & daughter-in-law

I'm sorry to hear this Creme. Yours was what I'm sure many of us old timers would consider a success story in how difficulties between you and your son/DIL were turned around into a lovely relationship.

Keep doing as you're doing, offering support and no judgement. She probably doesn't want you to feel put in the middle of herself and your son. Nor does she want to put you in the position of taking sides. It sounds like they are also trying to handle everything correctly in the interests of their child which is always a good thing. In time I'm sure she'll come to you if you keep your door open for her.
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