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Old January 1st, 2016, 08:26 AM
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Re: I need another opinion

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Originally Posted by JaydeeTas View Post
He's never given me a reason. All I get is "Blended families don't work. What's in it for my son.... nothing."
This isn't about you or his ex-wife.

This is the whole issue. It does not matter if children are young and in the home, or adults doing their own things: you will still need to learn to blend your families. Imagine Christmases with grandchildren...

And at the very core of your relationship is his belief that your relationship can never work.

I don't like ultimatums, but this belief is a deal breaker. If he will not deal with that, then there is no "happily ever after" in the future. I'm sorry. You sound like a lovely person. You deserve better.
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