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Old August 23rd, 2015, 01:54 AM
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Unhappy Reconnecting With My Little Cousin Who is Now 16 and Ignoring Me For No Reason?

I m currently 21, I have a little cousin that has been a huge part of my live as clildren to teens. When I was 18, we just started drifting a part as she moved 2 hours away to San Francisco and she started ignoring me for no reason. Now I m 21, and I ve been told by other family members that she made friends with these two-faced cheerleaders that keep pushing her to have sex and get "cross faded" at parties, and currently, she is 16. She went through a huge growth spurt, and developed tremendously between age 15 and 16. Like, from 5'2 to 5'9 and built like a woman in her 20's. I'm 5'1" and look young, and she uses that as another way to disrespect me. I'm trying to help her as I've been through high school, but she looks at me as a joke just because I'm not as "developed" as her at 21 and I'm was more of a nerd in School.

Also, her new "friends" slapped her and called her an "Amazon Woman" when they met...

She becoming a rude and condescending as her friends, and avoids me like the plauge for no actual reason... Maybe because I like video games, and her new preppy friends tell her that it s gross for girls to play video games cuz the smell and are "dikes" :/ (for the record I m straight with a bf I ve been with 3 years, and I shower daily) My point for quoting them is because they are very demeaning and prejudice as well.

I mean suddenly she s become one of those backstabbing, superficial, mean girls, and going to parties doing who knows what... She was such a sweet girl growing up and we were very close... Pretty much best friends our whole life.. Then, all of a sudden, she enters High School and treats me like trash It's like she was brainwashed! What should I do?

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Re: Reconnecting With My Little Cousin Who is Now 16 and Ignoring Me For No Reason?

You are a very caring person, but you're not the right person to help her, even if she wanted help. You are 21, you live two hours away. You should move on and let your little cousin grow up with her parents direction.
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