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Old May 4th, 2017, 03:30 PM
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I'm sad and hurt

I moved almost 2 years ago to another state. My mother and sister had a hard time because they live in a bubble and have been in the same place forever and will never leave. That is ok.. but why do I get an attitude because my family and I moved for a better life?

My sister hasn't visited yet at all and has no plans to.

My mother and stepdad came once and it was almost forced. I asked my mom and sister to come in may to see if we could all have just girl time.. dh will be away.. and all I heard was CRICKETS. no mention again in like I'll think about it or maybe or ok or anything.

WTF? apparently I'm being punished for moving. I have kids. I would think my mom would want to see my kids. I always am the one who has to travel to see them. I have to go again end of may but no one comes to me REALLY? I guess I'm just so hurt. and my kids will be too. I'm just sad. WHY?

My husbands family have all been here to visit more than once. me NOTHING and don't get me wrong I'm really close to my family. it's frustrating
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Old May 4th, 2017, 03:47 PM
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Re: I'm sad and hurt

Is there a reason why they might not want to visit? Too many steps? Shortage of cash? Have you tried to talk to them about it directly: "I feel as if you don't want to visit me. Is there a reason?"

Sometimes people just don't like going to new places, to travel outside of their comfort zone. Don't make their problem your personal problem.
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