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Old November 1st, 2016, 01:27 PM
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So long story cut short. My long life best friend is getting married and I'm his best man. We touched each other <snip> a few times when we were younger but nothing serious. We got very drunk the other night and he suggested putting porn on which we have done a few times, when he clicked on the search bar a previous website popped up that I had viewed. It was basically <snip>. Anyway we spoke about it and he asked if I'd fancy him in a dress and wig and it ended up getting very heated and ended in us spending a few hours experimenting. How do I not let this break our friendship?

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Old November 1st, 2016, 01:50 PM
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Is it school holidays already?
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Old November 1st, 2016, 01:59 PM
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Nope....
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Old November 1st, 2016, 02:18 PM
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Umm, the more important question is "How can you stand up as his best man knowing he isn't going to be faithful?"
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Old November 1st, 2016, 04:07 PM
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Re: Best man & groom

I personally know four couples where the man and woman got married, had babies, celebrated many anniversaries, and then divorced when the man, approaching middle age by then, couldn't deny his sexual preference any longer.

In my opinion, since you are the best man, you have an obligation to the couple to tell the groom to figure this out before he promises to love, honor, and cherish a woman for the rest of his life. It is what is best for the groom, it is what is best for the bride, and it is what is best for the marriage. At the very least, he needs to be completely honest with the bride-to-be about his experiences and interests.
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Old November 1st, 2016, 04:38 PM
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I do think people can change their preference.They can start liking either sex over time. I dont think sexual preference is set in stone for some people. In this case the groom should not be getting married to a woman if he is doing this behind his fiance's back,thats not a good start to a marriage.....he needs to be considerate to his fiance even if that means losing her forever.
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