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Old September 16th, 2017, 09:27 AM
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Re: Am I losing it?

He absolutely needs to be out of your house and life.

He is abusive and knows what he is doing, as others have said.

I'm sorry you are having to deal with him on top of all your medical issues.
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Old October 23rd, 2017, 05:55 AM
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Re: Am I losing it?

sometimes we don't realize it, b/c we feel so responsible for our loved one's welfare, and in feeling that way, we react by trying to help them, and then we allow them to take advantage of us, enabling them to do so.

You need to stop being his door mat and kick him out....you are not responsible for his choices and failures....

It's time he grows up and take responsibility for his own life and choices.

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