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Old February 18th, 2016, 02:44 AM
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I have a 14 years step daughter and she was with us when I married with her dad . she was 4 years old . before marriage I told her Dad , I hate this girl but he was mad about me and told , she will grown up and will go . I was young and I could not understand how hard will my life be . it is ten years that I am dragging myself in this life.every morning when she leaves home for school , I really appreciate God and in first 20 min in morning that she is getting ready to go, I am eating myself in very hard moments. This is story of all days and without her we had always very lovely life .
Now she is 14 years old , I am thinking a solution how to send her out after she turns 18 . pls help me if you have any experience, If you know there is any chance for other cities with home for young girls or universities ....

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Old February 18th, 2016, 04:54 AM
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Re: how to kick out step daughter

That poor child had to grow up in a house where she was hated? I suspect she'll leave on her own. At least I hope she does, and I hope she shakes the dirt off her feet and never looks back at the adults who refused to love her.

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Old February 18th, 2016, 09:25 AM
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Re: how to kick out step daughter

I have no words. Other than and I'm sorry for bringing religion into this Lucy and KayKay but as you say you appreciate God, as the quote goes;

"if you hate anyone because of your faith, then you're doing it wrong".

I think you need to look to yourself to find the cause of your unhappiness, not your stepdaughter.
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Old February 18th, 2016, 10:53 AM
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Re: how to kick out step daughter

You hated a 4 year old little girl? I am literally beside myself in unbelief on this one... A four year old little girl. I have a four year old grand daughter and she is the most precious, most inquisitive, sweetest, loving and happy little girl. She is loved by her mother, her father, her two older sisters and two older brothers. AND her grand parents - ALL of them!

And now this little girl is 14 and has grown up with a step mother that has hated her for the past 10 years. Then the father of this child who sacrificed his little girl for a selfish self centered woman who told him she hated his daughter - this four year old baby.

This is really the saddest post I have read in a long time. I sincerely hope this child hasn't been damaged to much and has found the strength within herself to endure and continue to endure in the future. I pray this child succeeds in life as an adult and finds someone who will love her unconditionally.

As far as you go jigar... I agree with what has already been stated... Look within yourself and figure out what caused your unhappiness... because it certainly was NOT this child. A baby (4 year old) doesn't have the mental capability to manipulate an adult into hating them.

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Where's her bio mother?
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Old February 19th, 2016, 12:57 AM
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Re: how to kick out step daughter

her own mother refused to keep her and gave her to dad . she never met girl after that . she lives in another country with 20 hours flight .
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