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Old August 17th, 2019, 12:08 PM
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Re: need help dealing

Thinking of you, snafu. I hope it went well.
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Old August 17th, 2019, 03:06 PM
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Re: need help dealing

Short version - went pretty well

detailed version:

trip there went fine (I had DS's bike- he had everything else)

ex (+ 2nd wife) showed up just as we were getting ready to leave (to get parking pass)

DS took them on a short tour of his place - when ex first walked in he immediately began straightening chairs & the recycling bin. It made me sad that his OCD kicked in that quick. (made me think of students with autism induced anxiety having to have things just so)

Before ex left he had a talk with DS (DS & I were in DS's car) about how mom & dad weren't around to watch out for him anymore and how some people would do the wrong things and he needed to stay strong and not do those things.

It made me feel that either ex doesn't know DS very well (DS has a strong objection to drugs - and drinking) OR that ex was having his own anxiety.
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