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Old September 25th, 2019, 05:09 PM
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bad daughter reprise

I know (in my head, but not in my heart) that I'm not a bad daughter, I'm human.


I want to "resign" as being the responsible adult "child" for when things go "south" for DM....and DH has done a lot when DM has ended up needing the ER.


I'm fed up with "dueling" parts of DM's care team (at the hospital) wanting different things in order for DM to be released. The constant merry-go-round of

-she's ready to go home vs she's not

-she's being released today vs she's not

-she's needs rehab vs she doesn't


I'm just f'in' sick of it

...and then there's DM's expectations/needs
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Old September 25th, 2019, 05:59 PM
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Re: bad daughter reprise

I'm sorry, snafu. Being stuck in the middle of all of this is hard.
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Old September 26th, 2019, 09:05 PM
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Re: bad daughter reprise

I think part of my current issues is related to I'm currently working both a full time and a part time job. There's only so much of me to go around.
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