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October 21st, 2015, 09:14 AM
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Padlock- is this normal for a girl in her twenties in foster care to have messages
Hey everyone. I am asking advice for my guy friend and I need everyone's input
So my guy friend and his gf have been dating for a year. His gf who is in her twenties is in foster care. Recently my friends gfs foster mom put a padlock on my friends gf to monitor messages between my guy friend and his gf. Is this a red flag? 
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October 21st, 2015, 11:12 AM
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Re: Padlock- is this normal for a girl in her twenties in foster care to have message
I must not know what a padlock is. I think of it as a big, metal lock to prevent a door from opening.
A red flag for what? Do you think the GF is being abused? Honestly, this isn't something I think you should get involved in. Your friend's GF is an adult. If she is in foster care, that means there is some reason the state decided she can not take care of herself. Her foster mother is responsible for acting in the girl's best interest. For some reason, the foster mother thinks those messages need to be monitored. I don't know why, and chances are good that you and your friend don't know why either. Is your friend under age 18?
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October 21st, 2015, 11:26 AM
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Re: Padlock- is this normal for a girl in her twenties in foster care to have message
No she is in her 20s
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October 21st, 2015, 12:24 PM
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Re: Padlock- is this normal for a girl in her twenties in foster care to have message
I thought I misread the age.
Adults in their 20's don't normally have foster parents. If she has been ordered there through the court, THAT would be a red flag. If she's there voluntarily and paying her own bills, the foster parents are overstepping. If they pay for the phone and her bills, then she has a choice to make. But as KayKay already said, this is between her and the foster parents. Do not get involved.
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October 21st, 2015, 02:05 PM
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Re: Padlock- is this normal for a girl in her twenties in foster care to have message
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October 21st, 2015, 05:51 PM
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Re: Padlock- is this normal for a girl in her twenties in foster care to have message
^ No advertising allowed here though, remember. So if outgoingcutie is going to explain, it needs to be a non-advertisement.
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#8
October 21st, 2015, 07:44 PM
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Re: Padlock- is this normal for a girl in her twenties in foster care to have message
My guy friend is in his twenties
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October 22nd, 2015, 11:53 AM
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Re: Padlock- is this normal for a girl in her twenties in foster care to have message
Outgoingcutie15, This woman is supposedly an adult, and her mother should definitely not be looking at her texts, but this is between them to sort out.
(- Do neither of them understand this is inappropriate no matter who pays the bills?) (??) - If it is a court-ordered monitoring, then i would be concerned for your guy friend, indeed.
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