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Old November 22nd, 2014, 02:22 PM
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Re: What does your teen pay for?

currently my DS earns money by mowing our lawn or shoveling snow. He also gets an allowance each month and $$ based upon his grades. Originally he wasn't going to play HS soccer and I told him he'd need to get a job ... DH gave him a cash incentive to play.


He's saved his money and bought his own DS, a laptop, and now has to pay for gifts he gets for others. He's saving to get a car ... but I think he spends a bit of $ on junk (game cards, etc.)
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But I do appreciate the life lessons and feeling of accomplishment that kids get from working. I know I did as a teenager. I didn't "need" to work but chose to. It's just that times were so different then.

My DD puts in 12 hour days (on average - some are much more!) at school between classes and after school activities. She then comes home, eats dinner, then puts in 3-4 hours of studying per night. I mean, I never did that!!

I kind of feel like they are missing out by not having jobs, but I'm not sure that *they* (with their personalities) are suffering.

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But I do appreciate the life lessons and feeling of accomplishment that kids get from working. I know I did as a teenager.
then maybe you could discuss it with hubby, then all of you sit down and discuss it. Explain to them what a perspective a person gets when they work. And if not, then its ok, everyone is different, ya gotta do what works for you, regardless of what anyone else does.

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Re: What does your teen pay for?

I know this is an old tread, but DS is now 19, he pays for his own gas makes his own car payments and paid for most of the down payment
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I'm impressed. Really, I am. I bet he takes good care of it too. Kudos to your son.
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